Wednesday, August 03, 2005

More about me..

Somewhere on the net, you will find this posting I did over a year ago...

What am I looking for? I am looking for my life partner. Someone who is smart, ambitious, physically fit, caring, not selfish/self-centred or manipulative. To me, honesty is the most important. I say what I think and have zero tolerance for those who play games. When I am in love, I give my partner all I have and ask only for his love in return. I am looking for someone I can grow old with, being there for each other in bad times and won`t quit. A long term relationship is about honesty, caring, acceptance, forgiveness, understanding and compromise. Everyday, you learn to love your partner, learn to love his imperfections, learn to see the good side and the potential of your lover. It is not about instant gratification or satisfaction. It is about little things that two people can share that slowly build up and last a life time. It is about coming home, knowing someone will be there waiting for you to start dinner rather than waiting at Starbucks every weekend for your online encounters to show up. It is about being turned on by his heart, love and wonderful personality, not the size of his cock or versatility in bed. It is about dealing with crisis together, inclusion, not exclusion. It is about sharing happy and sad moments together. When we are still young, it is very easy to fall in love on the basis of physical attributes and sexual desire. But have you thought about who will there for each other when you turn 65? Look at the person you are dating now, and add 30 yrs to his age, and ask yourself, will he be there for me?

"The Goat In Love The Goat is a shy animal, a fact that is also quite obvious in most people born under this Chinese sign. For some reason this fact puts a number of people off trying to strike up a deep relationship with the sign. This could worry the Goat a little and help to induce the nervy side of the Goat nature, which is quite pronounced in any case. Once the barriers are down, this is an affable, warm and very genuine character, who possesses courage, good organising abilities and a practical common sense that is second to none. The Goat is a deep sensualist and being emotionally warm, delights in being loved absolutely. Some people would say that the Goat can be rather too serious for his or her own good, but all members of the flock are likely to be very family minded, and devoted to those for whom they show a deep concern. The Goat is not likely to make a first move romantically, and may even seem cool until you get to know their character better. This is not a one-night stand and it is fair to suggest that you gain more from a relationship with the Goat as time goes by. The effort you put in is directly mirrored back at you, however, and there never was a better investment in time and devotion than this one. Goats are often successful in a material sense, usually by dint of perseverance. A quiet, pleasant and usually delightful exterior overlays the more competent qualities that lie beneath. The Goat person is famous for his or her warm smile and pleasant personality and is usually happy to settle for one relationship at a time, which is often also for life. Certainly a steady sign, that of the Goat. The Male Goat The male Goat is often a natural born home- maker, is a warm and affectionate partner and a particularly good friend. You will enjoy his company under most circumstances and should find him to be the greatest 'mate' that you could possibly have. Maintaining the status quo is always easy with the male Goat around, though actually changing things significantly might be more difficult. If it is Indiana Jones that you are looking for, the male Goat may not be for you, though he is fond of travel and would relish the sort of journey which is 'different' in some way. All the same, he does like to be at home much of the time, and so can alternate between contentment and restlessness. Passion, in the strict sense of the word, may not be Mr. Goat's stock- in -trade, and you do need to put a bomb under his rear and sometimes if you want to get the best out of his potential. In a deeply personal sense he has what it takes to keep you happy, but you might have to do some of the initial running and will need to ring the changes in order to keep things fresh and alive. Personality is not something that is naturally inherent to the male Goat, though those who would assert this probably do not know him as well as they might. You could find him to be just the right sort of person to spend the rest of your life with and, once he has made up his mind, he could be around for good. Mr Goat is a good worker, adores his family and is probably never going to be 'one of the boys', so chances are you will know where to find him most of the time. He needs to lighten up a little and maybe you can help him"


At 6:08 a.m., Blogger James said...

That's beautiful. My sentiments exactly about love and relationship. Have faith and be patient ... he will come along ... I know.


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